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Religion in the Netherlands:                                                 King's Day, Black Stockings, straight lines and Carnival

31/8/2014

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In general the Dutch aren’t what you would term a particularly religious society.  If you were asked however to associate a particular religion with the Netherlands you would probably think of Calvinism, right? And whilst outside of the ‘bible belt’, the Protestant churches may be far from full nowadays; it is this religion that has left its mark on the majority of today's society.

 (If you’ve never heard of the bible belt it’s a strip of land stretching from Zeeland to Drenthe made up of towns and villages where the most conservative of religions are practiced. There are often referred to as the 'black stocking churches' in reference to the sombre dress worn).


Someone remarked to me a while back about the Dutch “being too serious” and “not the most fun loving”. Many internationals would probably agree. In Calvinism enjoying oneself and having fun were seen as penalty points when it came to entering heaven. Hard work, diligence and being serious on the other hand were seen as prerequisites. Similarly, enjoying money was a serious no. Today approximately 10% of the Dutch population own 60% of the wealth, yet you very seldom see displays of wealth in the Netherlands. There is a distinct lack of hierarchy in Protestant religions; everyone is answerable directly to God; both pastors and lay people alike, there are no ‘in-betweens’. Today’s Dutch society also lacks hierarchy; everyone being supposedly equal. The Netherlands of today is also very individualistic where people often appear to only think about themselves.  This also has a base in Calvinism which dictates that each individual is solely responsible to salvaging his/her own sole. Religion led to the Dutch desire for order and uniformity as seen in the undistinguished suburban housing estates and the straight-line patterns made by dikes, canals and fields. And last, but certainly not least, the agenda; that unmissable accessory of the vast majority of the Dutch. Planning and being organised came with the Calvinist territory. 

So despite the country being one of the least religious in Europe, religion plays a huge role in today’s society. If you were here during the first (new) King’s Day this year you may have been aware that because the date fell on a Sunday, King’s Day was celebrated on the Saturday before instead, Sunday being a day of ‘even less fun’ than the rest of the week.

If we look to the south of the Netherlands, the provinces of Brabant and Limburg are predominantly Catholic and anyone who has ventured south of the river will testify that the people there are ‘different’. Again this can be explained using religion. The Catholic Church is much more hierarchical that its Protestant counterpart (think of the layers of priests, bishops, archbishops, cardinals, pope) and society in general also tends to be less egalitarian and more hierarchical. The burden placed by Calvinism to lead a strict, sombre, sober life in the hopes of getting into heaven aren’t there for Catholics. They have that wonderful sacrament of confession. Take your sins to the priest, do the penance and hey presto you’ve got a clean slate again. Life therefore tends to be a lot more fun filled, easy going and relaxed. Just look at the amount of beer consumed each carnival! And as for agendas. Yes they do exist down south but planning and time keeping are a lot more relaxed than in the rest of the country.

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Linda
20/1/2015 05:21:24 am

It seems to me that the people here in the south are more cultural catholic than religious catholic. They use it as an identification and to separate themselves from the northerners. Personally I don't know anybody here in the south who actually believes in the christian god (I do know some ietsits though but they are not christian, more agnostics who believe in "life energy" or reincarnation). And as far as I know, less than 2 percent of the population attends catholic mass. I'm not saying there aren't any rituals (lighting a candle for example for loved ones who died / are sick / have a drivers test), but as far as I can tell, the catholic church has no influence anymore on the world view and morals of the southern population.

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Linda
20/1/2015 05:34:30 am

Also, I am living in the catholic south for almost 40 years. I grew up here, went to the catholic school where the pastor came to tell bible stories every week, and went to church with my mother every Sunday when I was in primary school. I can say that the sacrament of confession you mention is not something that is done in the catholic Netherlands. Not now and not when I was young. My parents went to confession when they were in primary school, but the custom has died out in the Netherlands since those days (early 1960's). Also the concept of sinning, hell etc was never mentioned in my youth by either the pastor or my school teachers. I didn't learn about the concept of sin until I got older (around 12) and I did not even associate Hell with church then. It was even later that I ever heard about "confessing" and I learned that concept from American movies. Only the more "positive" bible stories were told by our pastor in church. No hell or damnation. It seems to me you have a very distorted idea of Catholism in the Netherlands and perhaps you base it on the way it is given shape in other countries.

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Mara
25/10/2015 06:27:12 am

I agree with Linda. The idea that the catholic church has much influence on the daily life of especially the young generation is preposterous.
Catholicism is an elderly people's religion, and I don't know anyone under 50 who are religious catholics. I do know more agnostics and people who think more ietsism than atheists here, and that is very well accepted. I know some people who are atheist but still think Jesus was a wise guy with good things to say without believing all the supernatural stuff like coming back to life after death.
But anyone who isn't an elder person and actually says he believes in a literal god like the one in roman catholism is considered kind of a freak or lunatic here in Brabant.

That doesn't mean that people here in the south will not identify as catholic, because it is a way of showing pride about being a southerner by distinguishing yourself from the north as a catholic even when you are an atheist. It has become a cultural term or even a form of localism or regionalism in my opinion, catholicism in the south is definitely not a religious label to most people anymore.

Also as a child, I went to 8 years of catholic primary school and church without ever hearing the words "confession", "devil" or "hell". No one ever suggested to me that I was "sinning" when I did something wrong.
Pretty much only the fluffy and miracle stuff was told, which to me was like fairy tales. I liked both bible stories and Grimm stories equally and did never distinguish between them consciously or unconsciously.
It did only some years later occur to me that priest was telling the bible stories as if they were to believed to be true, and that the god in the bible to some people fundamentally differs from the witch in Hansel and Gretel.
Yes, Roman Catholicism is to be found in the southern Dutch culture. Like fairytales they are an expression of this culture, but that is all it is these days: an expression of the culture and not a steering influence on people's daily life and views.

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Cathi Moser Drost
16/11/2016 01:05:28 pm

I lived in NL for 3 yrs until the death of my husband from Cancer. We both were Christians- attending Crossroads international church in Amstelveen.... what an experience, coming from America! I would like to converse with someone regarding Holland, and the views people have regarding religion. I want to see my dutch inlaws saved and pray for them all the time. We lived in Purmerend.

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Jill
20/6/2017 08:10:33 pm

I immigrated to Canada with my parents and my brother in 1952, when i was 7 years old. We found that almost all the Dutch in Richmond British Columbia were either strong Christian Reforms or Roman Catholiic. My parents practised neither one. The reason being that my father came from a Catholic family and my mother a Netherlands reformed family. Both families rejected their union which in some way encouraged them to leave. My parents were very down on religion and they never spoke about God to my brother and i except to tell us when we were old enough to choose religion we would choose so from our own experiences not theirs. The other point they made was that the Dutch in Canada tended to stay together in groups based on religion. Their services in those days were in Dutch and they built Dutch school. I can remember my Dad telling me that it was okay to be proud of our heritage but that we came to Canada to be Canadians and that we must be proud, patriotic and contribute to Canada.
It is my feeling that the huge conflict of religion as it relates to my parents led them to immigrate to a new country and choose to leave the religous conflict of their youth behind.

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Joon
29/10/2017 02:51:55 pm

You all missed the point, ladies. The author pointed out that modern Dutch society in general are no longer religious. However, religion left a mark in their ways and thinking.

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Cathi
5/11/2017 04:01:50 pm

The Dutch have religion; but not a clue about the love of Jesus...in some villages in the 40's they would stone you for riding your bike, Ect. No Holy Spirit just dead churches...

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gary john schraa
13/11/2017 07:03:06 pm

wow cathi you are woefully wrong about that . what , they have religion but they don't know how to read .? and they don't teach their children about the love of Jesus or of God? what the hell is wrong with you ? or did I just answer my own question? stone you for riding your bike? the whole region practically has a bike born under their butt at birth

Cathi
14/11/2017 05:42:24 am

My Dutch mother in law is the one that told me about the stoning on Sundays for riding your bike. The point is there's a difference between religion and a relationship in Jesus Christ and in this particular situation it's all about legalities and not about love that is the point I was making--do you remember Corrie ten boom?

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